Spot the Signs
Notice changes in a mate's mood, behaviour, sleep or usual routines.
Read the signs```
For men who feel on the outer — isolated, overlooked, or let down by the mental health system. No fuss, no pressure. Just real stories and practical ways to look out for one another.
Check on a MateFrom the Shed
You don't need to be an expert to reach out. Sometimes a simple yarn makes a difference.
Notice changes in a mate's mood, behaviour, sleep or usual routines.
Read the signsKeep it simple. Ask how they're travelling, then make time to listen.
What to sayListen without judgement. You don't have to fix everything.
Listening tipsNot sure how to start? Copy a message and send it yourself.
See a messageReal-life stories, told in everyday words. The shed can be a place to build, think and sometimes hide away. Everyone has a story.

By Steven P. Doherty
Trigger warning: This story includes childhood fear and emotional trauma.
Sometimes it's easier to listen than to read. Here you'll find real-life stories from everyday men, told in their own words or narrated by someone else. Stories about life, the good times, the hard times and everything in between.
You don't have to work everything out on your own. If you're worried about yourself or someone else, support is available anywhere in Australia.
If someone is in immediate danger, call 000 and ask for emergency assistance.
Call 1300 78 99 78 for free, 24-hour professional telephone support for men.
Visit MensLine AustraliaCall Medicare Mental Health on 1800 595 212 (weekdays, 8:30 am–5 pm) for help finding mental health services in your area.
Visit Medicare Mental HealthWe're seeking two founding sponsors to help keep Men On The Outer free to use.
Sponsorship enquiries: bluemotoinc@gmail.com